uprev PyO3 and add python 3.13 support #340

Job	Run time
lint	56s
test py3.9	1m 4s
test py3.10	46s
test py3.11	55s
build os=linux target=x86_64 int=all ml=auto	2m 0s
test py3.12	56s
build os=linux target=aarch64 int=all ml=auto	2m 20s
test py3.13	53s
build os=linux target=i686 int=all ml=auto	3m 3s
build os=linux target=armv7 int=all ml=auto	2m 29s
build os=linux target=ppc64le int=all ml=auto	2m 23s
build os=linux target=s390x int=all ml=auto	2m 39s
build os=linux target=x86_64 int=all ml=musllinux_1_1	1m 47s
build os=linux target=aarch64 int=all ml=musllinux_1_1	1m 47s
build os=macos target=x86_64 int=all ml=auto	1m 50s
build os=macos target=aarch64 int=all ml=auto	1m 39s
build os=windows target=x86_64 int=all ml=auto	2m 39s
build os=windows target=i686 int=all ml=auto	3m 36s
build os=windows target=aarch64 int=3.11 3.12 3.13 ml=auto	3m 23s
check	1s
inspect-pypi-assets	12s
release	0s
	37m 18s

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