use CUDA 12.2 for building and testing wheels #465

Job	Run time
devcontainer / build (amd64, 12.0, conda)	2m 54s
checks / other-checks	34s
checks / check-style	1m 34s
devcontainer / build (amd64, 12.0, pip)	1m 56s
conda-cpp-build / compute-matrix	4s
conda-cpp-build / build (11.8.0, ubuntu22.04, amd64, 3.10)	1m 5s
conda-cpp-build / build (11.8.0, ubuntu22.04, arm64, 3.10)	1m 50s
conda-cpp-build / build (12.2.2, ubuntu22.04, amd64, 3.10)	1m 12s
conda-cpp-build / build (12.2.2, ubuntu22.04, arm64, 3.10)	1m 38s
conda-cpp-tests	1s
conda-python-build	1s
conda-python-tests	1s
docs-build	1s
pr-builder	1s
	12m 52s

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