PYTHON-5187 Add scripts to start and stop a server #1805

Job	Run time
Build wheels for manylinux_x86_64	2m 18s
Make SDist	30s
Build wheels for manylinux_aarch64	11m 10s
Build wheels for manylinux_ppc64le	10m 51s
Build wheels for manylinux_s390x	11m 20s
Build wheels for manylinux_i686	2m 15s
Build wheels for win_amd6	6m 18s
Build wheels for win32	6m 47s
Build wheels for macos	5m 38s
Download Wheels	9s
	57m 16s

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