Strategies for Active Listening:
- Avoid Distraction
- Don't Interrupt the speaker
- Let the speaker finish before putting your point
- Use door openers to extend the conversation or to get more input
- Show positive body language to the speaker indicating you are listening
- Take notes in case of crucial conversations
- Paraphrase the speaker's thoughts to steer the conversation in the right direction
Key Points for reflective listening
According to Fisher's model, the highlights of reflective listening:
- Reduce distraction while listening to the speaker
- Embrace the speaker's thought without being judgemental and empathetic to it
- Relay with speaker's thoughts and mood with positive verbal and non-verbal language
- Summarise the speaker's opinion to steer the conversation in the right direction
- Repeat the procedure for each concern, and switch the roles of speaker and listener
- write down your obstacles in listening
- find out ways to overcome them
TED talk by Barbara Oakley 17:50 minutes
Summary of the video:
- The author describes her story of not being good at maths in school. But, she is a professor at Engineering college
- Her career started in the Military, then work as a Russian Translator and at last became a teacher
- Told learning new skills helps to combine fresh ideas with the concept one already knows and create something new out of it
- Simplify the brain in two modes to boost our productivity and learning
a. Focus Mode: Tries to map the new learning with the past experiences of the life
b. Defuse Mode: Find out new ways of solving with a sub-conscious mind - Suggested to find new ideas in Diffuse mode then immediately switch to focus mode for the practical implementation of it
- Talked about procrastination as a habit
- Suggested ways to overcome procrastination in the short-term and long-term.
- Also talked about the Illusion of Competence in learning
- Suggested to refresh the understanding of the topic at a regular interval, test it and implement it for long term retention
Steps involved to improve the learning process:
- Use the Pomodoro technique for learning
- Implement the learning with tests and practical applications
- Use Mind-mapping in case of books/documentation reading